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Great words Tony. Anyone who’s lost someone young can identify with them. Thank you.

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"When things went wrong, he knew he had the backing of those in the stands"

In the stands.

Tony knows as well as anyone that Liverpool fans are a spectrum and at one end of the spectrum – let's call it The Bell End – is the social media Liverpool fan.

The only nanocrumb of comfort from all this is that I will never again have to hear the words "Diogo Jota" and "made of glass" in the same sentence from some whining little gobshite son of a long line of maggots, who claims to be a Liverpool fan. And if I do, God help whoever it is because I will burst you, like I wanted to burst the self-indulgent internetweirdo wandering around outside Anfield with a homemade "Max's Mission" sign, desperately trying to get on LFCTV. I don't give a shite who Max was or how he died, don't wave your f'in sign around outside Anfield while people are trying to grieve the tragic passing of one of my heroes.

Jota spent a lot of last season struggling with the after effects of a collapsed lung. I've not had one, I don't know what it's like, but I was in hospital once with an officer from the Met's Tactical Support Group, tough as nails, in the next bed to me, who was put in hospital with a collapsed lung. His surgery failed. The registrar appeared to give him the bad news, and (let's call him) 'L' and the whole family around his bedside collapsed in tears, worried about him having to be pensioned off the job he loved. As I understand it, they literally have to try to glue your lung back to your chest wall, and hope it sticks. It's a serious injury. One any true Liverpool fan would/should find very troubling. But no no, let's just give Jota five seconds to recover before demanding the club flogs him and replaces him with the latest shiny new thing.

After the grief comes the anger.

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"the feeling of togetherness"

It depends.

I feel it less and less with each passing year and it's entirely down to LFC social media.

Today, after a three-day pause to grieve Diogo Jota, or at least not to look like heartless bastards, a well-known Liverpool news site is back, bang at it, posting salacious gossip about Luis Diaz supposedly wanting out the club. Just for a few clicks. A few extra parasitic pennies.

This is us sticking together is it, just days after Diogo passing, encouraging tirades against another Liverpool forward who leaves everything on the pitch every time he plays for us?

They're not Liverpool fans these people. They are Liverpool monetisers.

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And now for something positive...

One lovely lady interviewed outside Anfield by LFCTV spoke beautifully about Diogo, describing him as "effervescent", which echoed Ruben Neves playfully calling Jots "My favourite lemonade". A bubbly character then. Universally loved by the right sort of Red.

The club did a sterling job putting together an hour tribute on LFCTV. I dunno how they held it together. I didn't, watching at home.

And probably because it kicked off with Aldo, a visibly emotional Aldo, and then I'm and you're and we're teleported back to 1989 and it's Aldo again, a visibly emotional Aldo, and Kenny, and Hansen, and and and.

And it renewed and strengthened my admiration for those lads, Aldo, Kenny, Jocky et al.

Mo posted on something or other that he was "frightened" to come back to Anfield, and I imagine "frightened" just hasn't translated across into English very well from Arabic and that was the nearest word that could be found whereas in English we have more nuance available to us: a "trepidatious" here; an "apprehensive" there. But he's been to no funeral, Mo, has he.

The lads that flew out to Portugal the other day, bless them all, have been to one funeral, and that's not to play down the absolute heartbreak of it, losing a friend, it's a life-changing tragedy; rather I'm just identifying it as a reference point, one funeral, for what comes next...

I think it was Hansen went to 26. And some of the other players too. Kenny. It doesn't matter who. It's not a competition as to who went to the most.

Imagine how emotionally draining it must have been to force yourself to go to 26 funerals.

I can't.

So yeah, renewed and strengthened admiration for all those that did, no matter how many, and that's good, lest, with the passing of time, we start to somehow take it for granted.

Giants of men. Absolute lionhearts of men. Lest we forget.

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